about

the website

Called: lucid in deutschland
Pronunciation: \ˈlü-səd\ \ən\ \ˈdȯich-ˌlänt\
Creation Date: August 15, 2005

Welcome

Just another expat website chronicling the misshaped adventures of a native Floridian and unofficial immi-pat centered in Munich, Germany. As a semi-public blog, you’ll find, in addition to Heza’s initial expat experiences, posts on travels in Europe and in the USA with her beau, Alex, as well as her slight obsession with cuisine and cooking, and other musings and curiosities. She’s delighted you are here. This site is powered by WordPress and based on the Arras Theme.

Why the blog name?

So do you know the song Silent Lucidity by Queensryche? It comes from that. Geeky. I know. I love the guitar riff -I’d listen to it a gazillion times and never tire of it. Most likely I was day dreaming back in 2003 while looking for an alias. It was a time when life could go anywhere and I had the means to steer my path. It could be the closest moment in my life where I would be my most intelligible. That would be pretty melancholy. The blog is my push to overcome my inherent laziness. Now that I live in Germany, I’m definitely never bored here.

the author

author photo

Jan 2010

Web handle: Hezamarie
Nationality: American
Family Heritage: Philippines, Germany, England
City of residence: Munich
Age: 33
Constellation: Capricornus
Civil status: In a partnership
Occupation: Trademark research / Vice-Chair of ESME e.V.
Motos:Fulfill your potential. Dance like nobody’s watching!
Reason for moving to Germany: Love
Lived in Germany for: Over six years

 

Downsides:

Sure, missing your family, friends and favorite haunts and eats is a given. Still social media technologies and global commerce have alleviated most of these pains.

One observed cultural downside (compared to the US) is the roll of men and women in the work force. Men are rarely encouraged for roles as nurses, teachers, social workers, or hairdressers. Women, who are between the ages of 25-35, may be overlooked for a job if they aren’t vague enough when illegally asked about whether they plan to change their family status. This phenomenon is indicative of Bavaria but less the norm in northern Germany.

Munich, in particular, seems to push families away with its high prices for modest real estate or rent and a not enough qualified nannies or available space in day-care.

Why she likes Germany:

Once you can find your purpose, there is a balance here like no other. A genuine desire to reflect on the past, see history from many perspectives. At the same time, we live for the moment, sit with each other and enjoy ourselves–spending quality time together is built into the social fibers. We discuss with gusto, without intending to harm or slander. Preparing for a future within means is possible here.