a shandy toast to Olive
By hezamarie on Jul 17, 2008 | In Random | 2 feedbacks »
photo from Olive Riley’s siteThis is not about my hometown, Munich, or expat life. I’m posting about a beautiful soul out of Australia. I’ll get back on track soon. It is rare that you get a perspective from, let alone read a blog written by, a woman born in October of 1899. Sadly, I only happened upon her words posthumously. Olive Riley past away last Saturday at the age of 108.
One of my mantras: Never let yourself die of boredom. I found these words in her post and I was hooked. I celebrate the fact that Olive continued to live and share her life until the very end. I’m so wowed. Her first post, recounting her visit with her great grandson and his two kids, is a riot. I found myself smiling and getting a bit choked up all the way through. So many people just give up on living once they get their invitation to AARP and get obsessed with reading the obituaries and the aches and pains that come with old age.
My contact with my grandparents has decreased over the years since my teens and conversations with them have been a growing struggle, at least for me. I have had so many questions but often times while growing up, I asked ones which struck the taboo chord. I learned to stop asking to avoid the pain I brought out. So there is this void. I’m saddened that I’ll miss the good stories locked in their memories. Like Olive talking about the time she decided to get false teeth at the age of 30! Maybe it wouldn’t fill the void but I’m thinking, “Wouldn’t it be cool if my grandparents started a blog?”
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I think it WOULD be really cool if your grandparents started to blog. You should reach out to your Granddad and sell him on the idea. It would keep him busy and he really has a lot to say. He has actually started to keep a log on his "ideas" about the world (to share with us later, I guess), so you should explain the pros of getting that on-line now.
Hope to see you soon!
Pam
Thanks for your encouragement :) It is wonder that the internet these days allows us to read the thoughts and memories of people from all different backgrounds. The notion is also a bit romanced though.
A large part of that new found contact between ideas and people is due to a broader understanding of how technology works today and its utilization. Although I could certainly sell Grandad on the idea of starting his own blog, I would need to hold up the technology part of the bargain. I can only guess how I could set that up from Germany.
Yet I get the importance of the message: reach out.
I attempt to do that in my own quirky way, which can sometimes feel like a deserted, one-way street. I get the feeling, why bother. Only once in a while I get feedback. But perhaps a little modification in this method is in order.
A reunion would be lovely! Hopefully soon.
With love,
Heather
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